Adventures In Bondage- My first play party

Last weekend marks a step up in my immersion into the BDSM community.  I attended my first play party.  It was nothing really major.  The attendance was pretty small.  Around 15 people showed up.

My rope class put on a party last weekend at one someones loft in LA and I decided that it was time for me to attend one.  I am super comfortable with my rope people and I have gotten to make some great friends.  I knew most of the people who were there so it was a easy and relaxing atmosphere to go into.

The party was centered around shibari but there was all kinds of fun to be had.  It really was just like any other get together except there was less clothes, bondage, and a few scenes going on.  Contrary to any misconceptions there was not sex going on everywhere.  Its all actually pretty chill...with the exception of a scene that my bondage instructor Sol participated in.  In between tying and the scenes that they had going on we all just hung out and chatted.

SO the scenes were a new thing for me.  I have played around in the classes, but I really got to see what a bondage scene was all about this past weekend.  I didn't participate in any scenes.  I was more like playing hostess running around checking on people and talking to them.  There were 3 scenes that I saw.  One was a Domme (thats a female Dominant, this one is actually a professional) that tied a man to a chair.  His entire body was bound up and he was blindfolded and gagged by rope.  She was doing CBT...now if you don't know what that is its cock and ball torture.  I really don't have the stomach for it.  Its kinda scary.  She had rope and a bamboo stick and that guy was in heaven.  I didn't hang around for all of that though.

The scene that Sol did was crazy.  He did a forced take down and suspension and it was spectacular.  The guy was into masks and restricted breathing so he was wearing a leather bunny mask.  Again not something that is my thing, but whatever, that is his kink.  So leather bunny mask in place and Sol starts the scene.  Now you guys are gonna realize how redneck I can be because it basically looked like Sol was wrestling a greased pig to the ground and hog tying him.  Not really a hog tie, but that's kinda how it felt to me.  Sol did some spectacular high speed tying on this guy and got him into a crossed leg position and winched him down into a leaning forward position.  Then he had 2 of the guys lift him so he could suspend him in the air in that seated position.  After that the Domme got some licks in with a bamboo can and she took no mercy.  He had his ass tore up.  Like almost breaking skin tore up.  They took him down after he called yellow.  Which meant he had enough.

I was in awe by it all.  My kink may not extend to that level, but I wasn't disgusted.  I can tell that my mentality about it all is changing the more that I participate in activities.  I can sit and be objective and not be disturbed by most things that I may not be particularly into.

The last scene was more my speed.  A wonderful friend of mine B got tied up and teased by my other friend M.  She was on cloud 9...full on eyes rolled back into her head spaced out she was feeling so good.  M had her fully tied up and immobilized and was alternating smacks with the cane and stroking her with it.  I swear she looked like she was either going to drool or purr or both (actually I think she did both at some point in time).  It really was a beautiful thing.  I totally want that experience in the future.  This was much easier to watch than the CBT.  I can deal with cane smacks...I just cant stomach ball smashing.  I got to cuddle with her a little throughout the night.  I love cuddles :)  I also kept catching her off guard and running my nails down her back, arms, and legs.  She goes all cat like and leans into it and gets major goose bumps.  It was adorable.

There were people teaching others how to tie.  Girls were running around in rope and panties.  One friend of mine even got tied to a toilet.  She laughing her ass off the entire time.  I would have kicked some ass, but it wasn't me so it was hilarious.  I was tied up in some way shape or form most of the night.  I got some bruises on my legs and booty too from a couple obliging friends with canes.  Best of all I got to chill with cuddle with my amazing bondage people.

I ended the night exhausted, but happy.  I slept most of Sunday then had to get up for transition back into mommy mode when I got my little one.

It was a great experience and I cant wait to have more like it and hopefully get more into the action myself.